Do you know that when you are in a relationship, whether you are in love and will lead yourself to marriage or you are just having fun and enjoying your puppy love, there is no need for you to do everything that you "THINK" you should do, to make sure that your partner is happy to be with you.

I can't deny that in a relationship, a couple owns each other mentally & physically. Therefore, it is important to know that you are as important as your other half. IF SOMETHING WRONG HAPPEN TO ONE OF YOU, how do you expect the other HALF to spend the rest of their life without you? Besides, you are not suppose to feel guilty if you are slightly selfish to yourself. There is NOTHING WRONG for you to give more love to yourself than thinking about your other half all the way and figuring out ways to make she/he happy. HELP YOURSELF SO THAT YOU CAN HELP OTHERS TOO.

Me and Maxxx have up and down in our relationship. From being good, then fighting, then being good, then argue, then back to normal again.

Relationship is a form of art, where both girl & guy have to put an effort to create it. It can be defined positively and negatively. For example, Red is the color of anger, ironically, red can bring happiness if the arts in it is happy. YOU HAVE TO DECIDE THE PATH AND HOW YOUR LOVE IS GOING TO BE DEFINED.

In our relationship, I m usually the one who is so stubborn and want things to happen as I wanted. This is due to the emotions that controls me. Frankly, I m not happy to know that my guy flirting with other girl. However, I never showed Maxxx that I do not like it. Instead, I got very stubborn and get super mean in order to pay my revenge and I end up making Maxx cried, sometimes, I even made myself cry too.

This is a mistake where I, as a girl should not commit. As a girl, we are overwhelmed with the feeling of being sensitive and emotional. However, we should never expect that a guy will understand us by showing that something that they do, just dont make you happy. I've been expecting Maxxx to know that there is always something with him that I hate a lot. However, he never knows until the day I confronted him, and how long does it take? 1 year plus.

What I can see is mens are not much different from the others, regardless if they are egoist or they are much humble and willing to give in. They dont read girls' mind and they cant give everything that a girl might want. Therefore, as the girl you have to ask the boy and confront them.

I can't deny that Maxxx is a fun person to be around with, as I can play around with him and goof around like goofy. It does not matter if you look stupid or act stupid in front of your laugh one.. Just let them laugh at you. It is a way to bring JOY to your relationship. LAUGHTER WILL ALWAYS BE THE BEST MEDICINE.

Besides, you should not be too scared and worrying too much that your other half will not be happy with you or whatever you do will make she/he sad. It is alright for tears to flow once in a while. It is alright for you to argue once in a while too.

If you are so scared and become too alert on what you are doing, you will just overload your love one. She/he will be bloated by your love and in the end, they will get bored of you. Besides, you will tend to forget what is more important, if you tend to be so alert on what you are doing.



For example, you are trying so hard to fill in the tank with water. But then, you are never aware that the water in the tank is already overflowing. You still continue filling in water into the tank. While, what you should do is just to wait for the water in the tank to run low, then, only you fill it in with more water, so that it wont be a waste. Your effort to carry the water to be filled to the tank wont be a waste. The water that overflow is not wasted too.

Most importantly, you try to understand and learn your other half's behaviour. Learn so that you know what you should do. A relationship is not an exam for you. You dont need exercises to practise or advices to follow, as different relationship carry their own different arts. Everything will come naturally. Doing whatever your heart tells you, accompanied by the logic of your thought, somehow, you will just know what to do next.

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