Labels: Personal Opinion, Random
If a girl rejected you because you are not rich, you still have no right to call her a "gold digger"... Why? Cause everyone needs MONEY to SURVIVE. You should blame yourself, for not being rich enough to maintain her.
In today’s global competitive world, it is hard to find true love. Everything needs money.
I remember when I was younger, how I used to fantasize of being with my prince charming “who rides on a white horse” and I’ll be riding the horse with him. Yes, the fantasy from the fairy tales.
But, as I grew up, things change. There is no such thing as prince charming who is very good looking, and yada yada yada..
Well, I can’t deny that in today’s world, EVERYTHING needs MONEY. For you to shower, you need money. Even to get yourself an Identity, you have to pay RM 10 to get your IC done... HAHA.. :)
Last time, you may be able to depend on “LOVE”. BUT, NOW, MONEY is your most loyal friend.
MONEY, is always there when you need them.
MONEY will not runaway if you just leave them and safe-keep it.
MONEY will not have any affair with other people.
MONEY dont give you attitude.
YOU know what is the BEST THING?
MONEY gives you happiness. AND THAT IS WHY, MOST GIRLS TODAY RUN AFTER only LOADED AND RICH GUYS.
And those RICH GUYS are mostly “quite old”. BUT, who CARES... they ARE RICH... they HAVE MONEY !!!!
Ten years back, you will only see ASIANS that date OLD RICH GUYS. But now, if you travel as far as I do, even in Germany, the western, they date RICH guys too. Why? Because money is everything to them. Money makes you happy !!!
Even for me, I realize that I am not that very pretty girl here (NOT in MALAYSIA or ASIA) – It’s just not my market here, BUT, I know my market is somewhere else. Despite all this, I still can be very choosy in picking the guy that I want to be with.
First and most importantly, they guy has to be rich, and I can travel to a lot of places with his money. Secondly, he must be nice to me. Thirdly, he must be educated. Fourthly, he must be presentable looking... and the list goes on.
Yes, I did put the kindness of the guy to be second on my list... As for me, and as for many other guys, it does not matter whether the guy is loyal or kind to you, just as long as they give you money, ENOUGH MONEY to spend, then, everything will be fine. GUY will still be A GUY, they have that naughtiness and always wanting young girls. You can’t control them or stopped them from meeting girls, cause no matter what you do, its their nature, and they still going to do it, WITH or WITHOUT your CONSENT.
If they give you money, use that money to groom yourself up, and make yourself looks pretty. At least, you have your pride back – you may get other guys.. who are better than your current guy. So GIRLS, LOVE YOURSELF more than YOU LOVE YOUR GUY..
MONEY ... MONEY... MONEY ... “Even if you are old, you drive good cars, you have lots of money, you give me money, I’ll date you”.... that is what most girls will say, and I am one of them. “NO MONEY, NO TALK”...
Landing on LOADED and RICH guys (despite of their age), have become a trend done by many women. Even in TV series – i.e. Gossip Girl, The Hills, etc ... Those girls are after high-income dudes that can guarantees their lives and give them money. It’s the girls fantasy to hook up with rich guys – ask most of them, and they will answer “YES, to fall in love with a RICH guy, is way easier that falling in love with the SMART guy, or the POOR guy”.
A guy has to be loaded – money to buy cars; money to bring the girls out; money to book “hotels” ... (ok, be open minded... this is happening even here in Malaysia).
NOW, last time girls will after those ambitious moneymakers who are SMART.. BUT, today, MBA holders or even PHD holders, are not as rich as these young guys ... HEHEH.. so no point, dating those people who hold such a high post in education – MBA or PHD ... GO AFTER RICH GUY(S)..
Something I adapt from the internet – there are so much RICH young CELEBS right now... other than that, yes, I also admire Mark Zuckerberg, 23, founder of Facebook who already earns $1.5 billion. But, to date these kind of young and rich people, it is almost IMPOSSIBLE for me.. Even though, I applied “The Secret – Law of Attractions” everyday, I doubt I’ll get them.
Now, reasons why I date RICH guy(s):
(1) He gives you money – travelling, shopping, gambling, eating, living expenses, JUST ASK FOR IT and of course with a LITTLE SOFT TOUCH and PERSUASSION, YOU’LL GET IT !!!
(2) Travelling with them, or even if you want to go further, or even to bring you out for lunch, they will bring you to good high-class places and hotels – with proper and high quality service waiters/waitress, refilling your wine glass whenever it is finishing.. WOW.. It is really nice... and YOU ARE EATING GOOD FOOD..
(3) RICH guy, they are really polite on the table, and that is why, it’s nice going out with them.. they will SMILE at you most of the time, and of course, you will SMILE back to them.. It’s really SWEET.
(4) Now, this is the cool part, THEIR RIDES !!! AWESOME !!! For someone who loves to sit in a good cars, it is important for guys to actually drive a car that can impress me.. HAHAH... A girl like me, who wears high heels most of the time, CANT sit on a BIKE !!! haha..
Dating a RICH guy, you need to actually tolerate a lot.. Well, they are extremely nice people - Polite and LOVING, but, HEY, you are not the ONLY ONE who is after them, there are so much more.. SO YOU HAVE TO COMPETE FAIRLY WITH OPEN HEART. Be understanding. Seduce them, but NEVER show to them that you actually need them.
If you want to SHOW someone that you REALLY NEED A GUY, find a GUY friend, it is OK, to show them that you need them.. BUT never to these RICH people.. BUT, you DONT be too UNAVAILABLE too, because, they will get sick chasing after you, and they’ll find someone else.. DUH, they have the money.. SO BE FLEXIBLE ....
P.S:
If you are still looking for TRUE LOVE, all the best !!! It is compatibility that actually guarantees your happiness. BE UNDERSTANDING and STRIVE for the best for yourself.. GO FIND A RICH GUY if NECESSARY.. DON’ T waste your time for guys..
Cause, when GIRLS get older, THEY ROT... hard to find a “womanizer”...
BUT, for guys, EVEN if they are OLD, if they have money, FLOWERS will still come to them.. hahah
THINK ABOUT IT !!!



